🔎 At a Glance

🧰 What You’ll Need

• One selenite wand (or slim tower / palm stone)
• White candle or soft lamp (diffused light)
• Small scarf or ribbon (to rest the stone near the throat without direct skin contact if you’re sensitive)
• Journal & pen
• Optional allies: blue lace agate or aquamarine (gentle voice), clear quartz (amplify intention)
• A glass of water to sip placed beside the setup (keep selenite dry)

✨ The Spell — Step by Step

1. Prepare the space (1 min): Dim lights. Place the candle to your right, journal to your left, selenite centered. Take one slow breath; open a window a crack to symbolize “fresh air in, static out.”
2. Light & posture (1 min): Light the candle (or switch on your soft lamp). Sit upright, shoulders relaxed, jaw unclenched. Rest the selenite on the scarf across your upper chest, close to the throat center.
3. Breath + sound (2 min): Inhale for 4, exhale for 6, three times. Then hum softly on the exhale for three breaths, feeling a gentle vibration at the throat. (You’re telling the nervous system, “we’re safe.”)
4. Crescent tracing (2 min): Hold the selenite like a pen of light. Without touching skin, trace a small crescent in the air from left collarbone up to throat and back down to right collarbone—three times. Whisper: “I speak with clarity. I choose kind light.”
5. Mirror the flame (2 min): Hold the selenite so it catches the candle’s glow and reflects a soft sheen. Let that reflected light fall toward your throat. Imagine it rinsing away static, worry, and sharp edges from your words.
6. Write the words that matter (3 min): In your journal, write three present‑tense statements you want your voice to carry, e.g.: “My voice is calm and true.” “I say what I mean with care.” “My words land softly and clearly.”
7. Seal & sip (1 min): Place the selenite on the page for a few breaths. Close the journal. Sip your water slowly—three sips to ground the work in the body (remember: the stone stays dry).
8. Close (1 min): Extinguish the candle (snuffer or a gentle breath). Thank the stone out loud. If you used ally stones, tap them lightly to the selenite as a “handshake,” then store all pieces safely.

🌙 Why This Spell (Symbolically) Works

• Selenite = soft light: It’s long associated with clarity, calm, and “polite” light. We’re borrowing that symbolism for speech.
• Crescent gesture: Invokes lunar gentleness; a reminder to “reflect, not scorch.”
• Hum + breath: A simple way to settle the body so the voice can follow.
• Writing in present tense: Puts your intention into the here‑and‑now—where you can act on it.

Think of it as emotional acoustics: selenite helps the room (and you) stop echoing harsh noise.

⏰ Timing & Variations

• New Moon: Focus on “what you want to say” in the weeks ahead.
• Waxing: Build momentum for presentations, hard conversations, applications.
• Full Moon: Gratitude for what your voice has already made possible; refresh other stones on a selenite plate beside the window.
• Waning: Release old scripts (“I must stay silent,” “I always overreact”). Write and gently cross them out.

🧼 Aftercare & Gentle Warnings

• Keep it dry: No water bowls, sprays, or “elixirs.” Selenite dissolves slowly—moonlight prefers a dry spa day.
• Protect the faces: Store on a soft cloth away from keys/coins; it scratches easily (part of its softness‑charm).
• Smoke‑free clearing: A bell, clapping, or a single chime works beautifully.
• Repeat: Do the full ritual weekly, the 10‑second reset as needed.

🎁 Bonus Mini‑Spells

❓ FAQ

💫 Closing Thought

Selenite’s gift is not loud protection; it’s polite clarity. Use this spell whenever you need your voice to be both truthful and tender. Keep the stone dry, the light soft, and the intention simple—moonlight doesn’t shout to be heard.

And if your selenite ever asks for a spa day, remember: it prefers candlelight and compliments, not bubble baths. 😉